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In Colorado, it’s common for divorced couples to have some kind of alimony or spousal support arrangement.

Unfortunately, sexist stereotypes and unfair expectations make it easy for men to be treated unfairly in matters of spousal support.

The alimony lawyers at the Dadvocates help men throughout Colorado establish fair support arrangements. 

What Is Alimony?

Alimony is financial support that one ex-spouse is legally required to give to the other after a divorce. In Colorado, alimony is usually referred to as "spousal maintenance." Spousal maintenance is a separate consideration from child support, although the two arrangements are closely related.

Alimony exists because the law recognizes that two spouses frequently have different individual incomes and earning potential. This could be due to a variety of reasons, including:

  • One spouse left the workforce to look after children full-time
  • One spouse financially supported the other while the second spouse received education or job training
  • One spouse chose not to continue their education or advance in their field because the other spouse made enough to support the family

In these and similar circumstances, a divorce can be financially devastating for the lower-earning spouse. However, it's not necessarily the lower-earning spouse's fault, because they may have made financial sacrifices with the expectation that their marriage would last. Therefore, the court views some amount of spousal support after a divorce as justifiable in many cases.

The Basics of Alimony in Colorado

Couples married less than 3 years are generally ineligible for spousal support

Under Colorado family law, alimony can be awarded to a lower-earning spouse if the marriage lasted at least three years. Alimony is not automatically awarded, and a variety of factors will be considered when determining whether spousal support is appropriate.

Spousal support is usually a temporary arrangement. The duration of time during which alimony payments are required is calculated based on how long the marriage lasted. Lifelong alimony is only awarded in rare circumstances if the marriage lasted at least 20 years.

Spouses going through a divorce are allowed to negotiate and sign their own spousal support agreement. If they are unable to reach an agreement, either spouse can request that a judge make an alimony decision. C.R.S. § 14-10-114 provides advisory guidelines for judges to consider when resolving these disputes. However, a judge has the authority to ignore the guidelines and make a unique decision if he or she believes that the circumstances of the divorce are extraordinary in some way.

Do You Have Questions About Alimony? Speak with a Colorado Men's Rights Lawyer

The Dadvocates is the only law firm in Colorado dedicated to defending the rights of men in family law disputes. We serve men throughout the state from our offices in:

  • Aspen
  • Boulder
  • Breckenridge
  • Broomfield
  • Colorado Springs / El Paso County
  • Crested Butte
  • Durango
  • Glenwood Springs
  • Grand Junction
  • Gunnison
  • Pueblo
  • Steamboat Springs
  • Vail

If you are dealing with issues related to spousal support, our attorneys can help. Set up a consultation with our team today to have your questions answered. You can arrange for an in-person or virtual consultation. To request your consultation, contact us online or give us a call.

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Men Can Receive Alimony

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During a divorce, lower-earning spouses can request spousal maintenance, regardless of their gender.

Factors Considered When Determining Alimony in Colorado

When determining how much spousal support one party owes the other, Colorado family law courts are advised to consider:

  • Each spouse's gross income
  • What each spouse will receive through division of marital property
  • The value of each spouse's individual property
  • Other financial resources available to each spouse
  • The financial needs of each spouse
  • The spouses' lifestyles during the marriage
  • The tax implications of spousal maintenance for each spouse
  • The length of the marriage
  • The earning potential of each spouse
  • The duration of the divorce proceedings
  • Any other factor the judge deems relevant

Note that marital misconduct is not considered when calculating alimony. Colorado is a no-fault divorce state, meaning that either spouse can choose to end the marriage for any reason, and choosing to do so does not impact that spouse's ability to make or receive alimony payments.

Colorado Alimony Equations

Numerous factors can influence the amount of spousal support a family law judge in Colorado ultimately awards, and every situation is unique. However, C.R.S. § 14-10-114 does provide baseline equations for judges to consider when making these calculations. These equations assume that (1) no child support is being paid by either spouse, (2) neither spouse is receiving spousal support after a previous divorce, and (3) the annual adjusted gross income of the two parties does not exceed $240,000:

Circumstances Alimony Equation Example
1. The maintenance award is deductible for federal income tax purposes by the payor and taxable income to the recipient. (This equation only applies to divorces finalized before Jan. 1, 2019) The monthly support payment should equal 40 percent of the parties' combined, monthly adjusted gross income minus the lower-income party's monthly adjusted gross income.

Suppose one spouse earns $7,000 a month and the other spouse earns $3,000 a month. The higher earner would make a monthly payment of $1,000 to the lower earner.

(7,000 + 3,000)(.4) - 3,000 = 1,000

2. The maintenance award is NOT deductible for federal income tax purposes by the payor and NOT taxable income to the recipient, and the parties' combined, monthly adjusted gross income is less than or equal to $10,000. The monthly support payment should equal 80 percent of the amount calculated in circumstance 1. 

Suppose one spouse earns $7,000 a month and the other spouse earns $3,000 a month. The higher earner would make a monthly payment of $800 to the lower earner.

[(7,000 + 3,000)(.4) - 3,000](.8) = 800

3. The maintenance award is NOT deductible for federal income tax purposes by the payor and NOT taxable income to the recipient, and the parties' combined, monthly adjusted gross income is more than $10,000 but less than $20,000. The monthly support payment should equal 75 percent of the amount calculated in circumstance 1. 

Suppose one spouse earns $9,500 a month and the other spouse earns $5,500 a month. The higher earner would make a monthly payment of $375 to the lower earner.

[(9,500 + 5,500)(.4) - 5,500](.75) = 375

Again, these formulas are only guidelines for judges to follow. Very few divorces are simple enough for the court to base a decision solely on these equations. That's why it's important to work with an alimony attorney who can present your situation to the court and achieve an outcome that truly serves your best interests and those of your children.

Alimony Payments and Taxes

In the past, alimony payments were tax deductible for payors and taxable income for recipients. However, the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 changed that. Now, spousal support payments are not considered tax deductible for payors or taxable income for recipients following any divorce finalized on or after January 1, 2019. Therefore, most divorces in Colorado going forward will align with circumstances 2 or 3 in the table above.

Our lawyers can help you understand the tax implications of spousal maintenance during a consultation.

Getting Divorced? You Need a Divorce Lawyer

If you are going through a divorce in Colorado, you need a trustworthy attorney on your side. Without a lawyer in your corner, you are at risk of being taken advantage of during family law negotiations

The attorneys at the Dadvocates help men navigate all areas of family law and divorce, including:

Learn more about what our law firm can do for you during a consultation. Our firm also provides criminal defense. You can set up a meeting with our divorce lawyers by contacting us online or by giving us a call.

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How Long Will Alimony Payments Be Required?

The duration of time during which a higher-earning spouse must make payments to the lower-earning spouse is called the "term of maintenance." The Colorado guidelines calculate the term of maintenance based on how long the marriage lasted. If your marriage lasted 36 months (the minimum duration to qualify for spousal maintenance), then payments will be required for 31 percent of the duration of the marriage, which is 11 months. For every month after 36 months, the percentage goes up by 0.17. So if your marriage lasted 37 months, then payments will be required for 31.17 percent of the duration of the marriage, which equals 12 months.

At 150 months (12 years and six months), the percentage reaches 50 percent. The .17 percent increase no longer applies after that. So for marriages lasting between 12.5 and 20 years, the recommended term of maintenance is half of the duration of the marriage.

According to the guidelines, lifelong alimony should only be an option when a marriage has lasted at least 20 years, except in extraordinary circumstances.

Alimony, Child Custody, and Child Support

In Colorado, it is normal for a parent with primary custody of a child to receive some amount of child support from the other parent. However, receiving child support will impact your ability to also receive spousal support, and vice versa.

When making a decision related to alimony, the family law court will consider how much financial support is being paid for the purpose of parenting. Typically, this means that if you are receiving child support, the amount of spousal maintenance you receive will be less than if you were not receiving child support.

Because judges have the authority to make unique decisions in alimony disputes, they will be able to take your child support situation into consideration when designing your spousal maintenance plan.

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Modifying an Alimony Agreement

It is possible to create a spousal maintenance agreement in which both parties agree that the agreement can never be modified. Our divorce lawyers highly discourage this. You never know what circumstances can change in the future, and it's always best to leave the option open to modify the agreement.

Modifying an alimony agreement is possible when either party experiences a significant change in circumstances, such as:

  • Losing a job
  • Getting a new job
  • Getting a raise
  • Getting remarried

While it is possible to modify a maintenance agreement, it's not necessarily easy. It's not sufficient to simply show that your ex got a raise. You have to demonstrate that the change in circumstances makes the existing agreement unfair, which is far easier said than done. Our attorneys can help you convince the courts that a modification request is justified.

Be the Best Dad You Can Be

At the Dadvocates, we are passionate about representing fathers in family law disputes because we know that kids need dads to live happy, successful lives. However, if you don't receive the financial support you need, or if you are forced to pay an exorbitant amount of support, then you won't be able to be the father that your children deserve. That's why we want to help you achieve a fair and reasonable alimony agreement with your ex-spouse.

Get started right now by setting up a consultation with our men's rights law firm. We can meet with you at any of our offices throughout Colorado, or we can arrange a virtual consultation. To request a consultation, contact us online or give us a call.

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Colorado Alimony FAQ

Are men and women treated differently when it comes to spousal maintenance?

They shouldn't be. Under the law, a person's gender has no bearing on their ability to pay or receive spousal maintenance. If you are a man and you feel that a judge is being unsympathetic to your case because of your gender, contact the Dadvocates. Our law firm exists to defend the rights of men in family law and divorce proceedings.

Will spousal support be given automatically?

No. Unlike child support, the law does not assume that any spouse has a legal obligation to pay spousal maintenance. Spousal maintenance must be requested by one of the spouses during divorce proceedings. The divorcing couple has the opportunity to negotiate a maintenance agreement between themselves, either alone or with the help of lawyers. If the two sides are not able to come to an agreement, either side can ask the court to make a determination.

What if my spouse is hiding assets?

During a divorce, it's not uncommon for the higher-earning spouse to attempt to hide or shield some of their assets. If they can disguise their true net worth, they may be able to achieve a more favorable maintenance plan for themselves. The divorce lawyers at the Dadvocates work with a network of financial professionals who excel at investigating hidden assets. If your spouse is negotiating in bad faith during a divorce, contact our attorneys today.

What do I do if alimony payments are not being made?

If your ex is not abiding by a court-ordered maintenance plan, you can file a motion to have them held in contempt of court. Our lawyers can help you file the necessary paperwork. If a judge finds your ex to be in contempt, the judge can force them to make up for their missed payments. In some circumstances, your ex may even face jail time for not making their payments.

Do I need to work with a lawyer?

You are not required to work with a lawyer during alimony negotiations or disputes, but it is highly recommended. This area of family law in Colorado is highly complex. If you don't work with a knowledgeable divorce lawyer, you may end up paying more than you should in spousal maintenance or not receiving the full amount of maintenance that you could.

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